Every one of us knows Time is precious, priceless once wasted cannot get it back.
We know but we never once look at how we are spending it. The sad part is we have all the time in the world for every stupid thing, for spending it on social media, to spend with friends, to spend with ourselves for so not valuable things but no time for our loved ones/family. We say I don’t have time in the morning and I’m tired, I need to rest at night(you of all people should understand me!).
Of course, your loved ones understand you, but when will you understand them??? we never realize that they are most precious people in the whole world, our life has no meaning if they are not there in it and its a must to make time to spend with them, talking to them. We neglect them because they are right in front of you in the morning and at the end of the day, we never realize even if staying in the same house they are missing you because you are not available. It’s all about priority, you know no matter what they will be there for us, admit it that you have taken them for granted.
Love is Spending some quality time together….
Time is precious because we can never buy it with money. Do monetary things give happiness than a loving person? Stop for a minute and think, from the start of schooling to settling in life, how much on average we spend with our family/loved ones in our lifetime? you have the answer, can count on finger’s right? such a pity. Once we lose them in our life’s can we get the time back? Then we start miss them, spending time with the same as how they missed us even when we are around doing our things. Stop making excuses for not making time. The only valuable gift you can give them is your time – a small part of your life! Other than that whatever you give them it is not worth it.
Trust me I know spending with family becomes complicated sometimes. For example, spending with mom and dad is too difficult for some of them when they start talking about the things you don’t want to discuss. Take some time to talk with anyone of your parent mom or dad, convey your thoughts about spending time together. Try, make them understand why you lose interest to spend time and ask them to stop discussing certain things, again and again, assure them you will figure out some things that whatever they are worried about you. So, request them that you want to spend some happy moments keeping everything aside. They will surely understand your feelings. 🙂
Now, when it comes to spending with your life partner/ loved ones, many of you must have asked a question to your partner that what is there to talk about? I’m spending with you know? ( checking your phone/watching TV ). When you ask like this, the other person feels like you are not interested to have the conversation and you are giving attention to tv/mobile than to your partner, its obvious. Don’t complain, if they are constantly trying to get hold of you, missing you and how do you expect them to be happy to see you run for your interests? Don’t think that your partner is not supportive, do not blame them.
When you find yourself getting irritated if your partner constantly needs to push you to spend time with him/her. Just ask yourself a question, Am I not interested? Do I love this person? He/ She is asking for gifts or my time? you have the answer. Here you need to have empathy towards your partner. Try and understand how they are feeling about your absence in their life even when you are beside them!
You will understand what it meant for them when they stop asking you and learn to live without you. When your partner asks for your time and nothing more than that, consider yourself the luckiest person. Because, in today’s world where will you find a person who is asking for your presence, making effort to communicate to you????
Please realize that Love is about giving your attention, time and showing that you care enough to make an effort to build the emotional connection between you. Then see the change in your relationship, the happiness you both feel and your partner will be more than happy to encourage you to spend time for yourself to do your things, you are interested about. When you both are happy, everything feels easy, simple. Your relationships will get a lot better, you will find yourself peaceful because lot of problems will disappear.
Think about this for a moment. ❤
Did we ever question ourselves that what is our passion ?? In which we are so much interested that we neither count the time ticking nor getting tired by doing it ! You feel a satisfaction, a happiness. It’s not very easy to find what is your passion in now a days world because there is so much of knowledge to gain , so much to see and learn. So, it’s a bit difficult to know what inspires you to go for it and what is the you love to do?
